I believe in soulmates. As in, you have many MANY soulmates (and, as an aside, most of them will not be romantic), and if you don't grab life by the balls, then some of them will pass you by, and you'll never know it. They'll walk right by you, and you'll never see them again. Or they'll sit right across from you for months on end, and you'll never know it. I struggle to make new friends because how can a stranger compare to my soulmates? But that's where soulmates come from. They come from strangers!